Looking Ahead to 2017


After reading Better than Before towards the end of last year, I am still a bit torn as to my tendency. I would say overall that I am an Obliger, though. For this reason, I don't find that New Year's resolutions always work great for me unless I have external accountability. For instance - I never miss my weekly yoga class. I've paid for it, it's a small class so my teacher is aware if I'm not there, and I enjoy the commitment I've made to it. I almost NEVER do yoga at home though, even though I would like to. Last year, I signed up for a 5-race package and ran four of those five races (I missed one because I was across the country for my cousin's wedding). Had I not signed up for this, I might not have signed up for any races or done nearly as much running.

Here are some things I am really looking forward to in 2017, in no particular order:

1) Taking a trip to Toronto in August to see COLDPLAY live in concert (we will likely take the girls, drive out, and make it a family trip - Brian's sister lives near Toronto and so do my aunt and uncle). I am BEYOND excited for this.

2) Seeing Beauty & The Beast in theatres in March (the trailer looks amazing, I can't wait)

3) Running 5 MEC races starting with a 5K this weekend

4) Continuing to work on yoga with my wonderful teacher

5) Reading at least 100 books again, including a great start with my choices for Erin's book challenge 6.0. Focusing on quality over quantity but continuing to prioritize reading in my daily life. Work on better book tracking in my bullet journal & on Goodreads.

6) Lucy turning 3 and Molly turning 6 - Lucy might even get to start preschool in the fall

7) My sister, brother-in-law, and niece moving closer to us in June/July (right now they are an hour away but they're moving to the city!)

8) Finding/starting a new job (my current position ends at the end of June) - I have mixed feelings about this, but I always knew it was coming and I am so fortunate to have had this experience in my position

9) My 10-year Homecoming Reunion at St. FX in October (I hope a lot of my classmates make the trip!)

10) My sister-in-law and her fiance's wedding in May - this will be a fantastic family event, and I'm so excited for them. Her fiance has been "part of the family" for longer than I have, so it will be nice to celebrate it officially :) The girls are both going to be flower girls too.

On another note, here are some of my goals and aspirations for 2017:
  • Go on (at least) a weekend getaway with Brian and also focus on one date night a month
  • Continue to work on being a calmer and more kind parent, wife, and friend 
  • Continue to declutter our home
  • Work on my posture with yoga, stretching, monthly massages, and my new posture corrector band that I got for Christmas :)
  • Find a fulfilling and exciting new job to feel passionate about
  • Continue to nurture my friendships with the women in my life
  • Continue to pursue health and happiness by finding time to relax, eating healthy food, and exercising
  • Attempt to publish blog posts at least twice a week including sharing more parenting thoughts, random writing, recipes, and more in-depth book reviews
Bring on 2017! It's going to be a great year.

In case you're interested, here are my goals from last year - overall, I did pretty well! :) 





9 comments

  1. I feel like I'm an obliger too. As much as I want to do things at home or on my own, I have literally no internal motivation. It has to come from paying to do something or have someone else counting on me.

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  2. yes to yoga! i bought a groupon for $70 for 2 months of unlimited yoga and i'm loving it!

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  3. I find myself staying more accountable when I have somebody that knows what I should be doing or will call me out on it. My husband and I don't exercise together, but I'll definitely think twice about going to the gym if I know that he's going too. And 1000 times yes to see Beauty & the Beast in the theaters! It just looks so beautiful!

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  4. I don't know what all the roles are, but I am most accountable to myself, I know that, LOL.

    So cute that your girls will be flower girls! The pictures alone will be fabulous. Lots of great family stuff coming this year for you!

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  5. You are making me want to reread Better Than Before-- I just took the quiz but got obliger too, which I've never really thought about but is totally me I think. You have so many fun things to look forward to (and work towards) this year! Seeing Coldplay will be so much fun, and so nice that you have some of your family moving closer.

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  6. So many things coming up for you this year! The wedding will be great, and good luck with the job search! I hope you find the perfect thing! I am excited to see Beauty and the Beast too!

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  7. i think i am an obliger as well, not that i've read the book but i've heard about the thingys. but, the difference for me is that i would skip both the yoga class i'd paid for and the teacher would notice my absence, and i would skip it at home as well. but if my friend was the teacher or meeting me there? i'm the first one there. so it's specific external accountability for me. i've also skipped several paid for races. i'm not proud of it lol.
    i cannot wait to see beauty & the beast. i might take the day off. hahaha. i am super intrigued by that posture band.
    good luck with your goals! so many things to look forward to as well. cheers to 2017!

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  8. Oh these are great goals! I am definitely an Obliger/Upholder. Whew boy! Anyhow, I love your goals for the year, good things to be mindful of, and I think you are set up to continue good habits and to work on new things! Excited to follow it throughout the year. :) Also, very excited for you to get to see Coldplay!! EEEK! :) I worked on some things based on Gretchen Rubin's book. I used a friend's post and reflections on happiness and I have come up with some good goals for the year. Hoping to post soon! XO - Alexandra

    Simply Alexandra: My Favorite Things

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  9. Oh I am definitely an obliger (and I just did the quiz which confirms this haha). I have this book, but I'm not ready to read it (we talked about this before I think, too much pressure to make changes in my life when I don't have the energy right now to do so), but still an interesting topic! I'm the same - if I'm signed up for a fitness class, or if I make plans to meet a friend for a workout, you bet I will be there! But working out at home is a definite struggle. I do hope I can find a way to overcome that once I'm cleared to workout though, since I'll be stuck at home with two little kids during the days.

    I'm not a big fan of Coldplay, but that trip sounds like it will be a lot of fun! And yay for your sister moving closer! Do you guys live right in Halifax? My in-laws were hoping we'd make a trip to NS this summer to "show off" the new baby, but I think we will spend our money to visit them in Florida in the winter instead.

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